Children adopted from foster care, either domestically or abroad, have a higher risk of developing rage disorders. If your kid does this, you know the signs: either an explosive outburst or a gradual but inexorable rise from moderate annoyance to wrath. Your child's triggers may be obvious to you, or you may be completely clueless. Once a kid or adolescent reaches fury, the parent is left to deal with yelling, shouting, and hostile child or adolescent. When kids and teenagers lose it, they can damage themselves or others; moms are often the ones who take the brunt of their aggression. A child's fury might be caused by a variety of factors. Read More:
1. This is a frequent symptom among mistreated children. Some brain damage doesn't show up on the sort of X-rays children in foster care get, so the youngster may never get a proper diagnosis. It's also possible that nobody is aware that the kid has a brain injury. Even if the youngster claims to remember being beaten, a complete brain scan rarely follows.
2. Disorders of the mind. Children who develop schizophrenia or bipolar illness often do not get a diagnosis until they are in their late teens or early adulthood, if at all.
3. This includes everything in the surrounding space that your kid comes into contact with, takes in, or reacts to. The lingering scent of hair shampoo, for example, or the glow of a certain cuisine or light, or anything else at all.
4. Pain. If your child has had headaches, toothaches, backaches, joint aches, etc. for as long as you can remember, he may not realize that they aren't normal or that other people don't feel the pain all the time, and therefore may never bring it up to you, even if you ask. It's inherent to who he is.
5. This is also another issue that is seldom examined while examining youngsters. Check to see whether he seems always hungry, or if his behavior changes drastically during the first few hours after eating.
6. Attachment problems and histories of abuse and neglect have not been addressed. You probably know a fair amount about your kid, but some kids have been through a lot more than they're letting on or remembering.
7. Issues with the New Chapter. Your kid is alright as long as you don't alter his routine, take him out of the home, or introduce him to strangers.
8. Your infant or toddler may have been exposed to people "losing it" from very early on. It's possible he's always seen himself in this capacity and has never been given the opportunity or support to develop skills that would serve him and others around him better.
Your kid might be suffering from any one of these underlying issues. Most of us just want the rages to end and have no idea what sets them off. The kid's well-being, our ability to connect with the child emotionally, and our sense of fulfillment are all at the forefront of our minds as we make this decision. The good news is that the vast majority of youngsters who exhibit wrath can be helped. It will take some trial and error to determine what works best for your youngster. Neurofeedback, Eye Movement Desensitization, and Reprocessing (EMDR), or a mix of the two, is what I often utilize in my practice, along with addressing the underlying causes and teaching the kid healthy coping mechanisms for expressing negative emotions like anger. Some of the children I visit will also need medication, either homeopathic or conventional medication, as recommended by a medical professional.