When Is It Time To Call It Quits?

Relationships are tough. From compromising about what you're going to eat for dinner to how you'll spend your retirement, there are many issues that can arise during the course of a marriage. For some, they navigate the waters and stay together. For many more, the boat ride ends in a crash. Suppose you've been wondering if it's time to call it quits or have questions as to whether or not it's the right time for a divorce; speaking to someone about your options is always the best way to go.
 
 
Verbal Abuse
 
Verbal abuse can look different to each person. Generally, somebody that talks down to someone yells at someone, or makes an individual feel poorly about themselves can all be considered verbal abuse. Verbal abuse is wrong on a colossal scale. While some think physical abuse to be horrendously worse, verbal abuse often goes on for years. In fact, most people don't even understand they've been in a verbally abusive relationship until after they've left. However, if you've noticed and are tired of being verbally abused by your spouse, now is the time to make arrangements and go. No one deserves to be verbally abused.
 
 
Physical/Sexual Abuse
 
Going along with verbal abuse, physical or sexual abuse is wrong and punishable by law. If you've been sexually assaulted by your spouse, you do have rights, and there could be ramifications for the injuries done to you. Speaking to a police officer and an attorney will help you find your way out of these situations, as sometimes they are involved. For physical or sexual abuse cases, it can be difficult leaving a situation. You may feel obligated to stay or fear for your life. In these situations, you should always contact the police.
 
 
Kid Issues
 
If your spouse isn't living up to your expectations as a parent, or they are mistreating your children, this could be a good time to exit the relationship. Your kids depend on you to be their protector, not be in a relationship with someone who is going to hurt you or them. Similarly, how you would handle physical abuse cases, if your spouse is hurting you and your kids, contacting the police is the best option available.
 
 
Contacting An Attorney
If you've determined that there is no saving the relationship, contacting a Northern Virginia divorce attorney should be one of your first steps. This can help you determine the steps you'll need to take prior to filing and start the proceedings for the dissolution of your marriage.