A Few Things I Learned Within My First Relationship

Being an unchangeable introvert and overall hermit, finding a special someone happens to be challenging for me.

Don’t misunderstand me, I did previously date quite a bit, although all dates shared a typical feature: uninterest. It had been yet another night out, in my first and current girlfriend, and oh boy have I learned a lot

about relationships since that time!

I'm no expert but, this is a small listing of a few things I have discovered since I have began dating my girlfriend.

Balancing buddies along with a girlfriend is difficult

I did not expect so that it is so difficult for me to maintain the school, work, check into my buddies AND date someone all at one time. It’s super hard at occasions, and picking one within the other always winds up feeling horrible. I'm still trying my hardest to maintain everything and everybody, even though it only will get progressively difficult. Suggestions?

Appreciate enduring this very untypical and far too personal publish. That which was the first relationship like? Still together?

Let’s discuss sex

Story time: Before meeting her, I had been a virgin. So, the very first time we'd sex, I had been quite unaware and also the room was quite dark. Mid-sex, I finished up punching her nose, bloodstream went everywhere and thus did my will to reside. Afraid and confused as hell, I attempted to assist the very best I possibly could, only to discover her hysterically laughing as I got her some frozen peas and tissues. What did I learn? Sex is supposed to be fun and often, awkward situations happen!

Are we able to spend time later?

As formerly pointed out, I'm a natural introvert. Spend greater than a couple of hrs outdoors; I'm dreaming about my couch and tea virtually following the first fifteen minutes. Avoid her. I didn't remember in the future home before a college day.

A brand new found appreciation for sleeping

I like slumber-parties but inevitably always hated sleeping. Discussing your bed, (sometimes floor or camping bed mattress), with someone always were left with me either sweating or shivering. Avoid her. Cuddling up alongside her and, even better, getting out of bed alongside her, feels tremendously much more comfortable than doing this alone. And, much more surprisingly, I went from being not able to fall asleep, to dropping off to sleep in her arms whenever I’ve were built with a rough day. I'm not even joking; I still can’t nap alone.

Easy will it

In most past dates, I had always been scrambling to locate a common subject to speak about, anxiously attempting to avoid individuals couple of seconds of awkward silence in-between questions. Avoid her. I was chatting non-stop for several hrs, jumping from subject to subject while discussing endless portions of wine inside a dodgy bar. And awkward silence? There are many moments of pure silence, where I simply appreciate her company and allow the wine sink in.

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